Sure, this practice is not everyone’s (or everybody’s) thing and nobody should feel compelled to practice anal sex if they do not feel like it. The anticipation! However, if you have become curious, here is the beginner’s guide to anal beads.
Who in sex from behind just “Ouch!” think, he should relax: The anus is an extremely erogenous zone, both in men and in women. Anal sex, if done right, does not have to hurt. If you pay attention to a few things, you can discover a whole new world of pleasure for yourself. The key to pleasure, however, is the “anal sex basics”.
For all beginners we have five tips from preparation to the right position. And we explain why anal plugs can be very useful for sex from behind.
Preparation is everything
Let’s not talk about it for a long time, but a few rather unexotic announcements have to be:
Point 1: If you want to have anal sex, you should not have to go to the bathroom.
Point 2: Take an extended bath or shower just before it gets down to business. If you follow this rule, you are simply more relaxed because you feel completely comfortable and your partner will be happy when everything is fresh. Also important: do not forget the condoms. Sexual diseases can also be transmitted during anal sex.
Not always easy, but for sex from behind it requires relaxed muscles, otherwise it is not, or it hurts. Relaxation is the magic word.
There are a few ways to provide for this relaxation. First, the room should be warm and comfortable – feel-good temperature. It also helps many women, if the partner gently caresses the anus before or pampers the area around with kisses and sucking (at least here the shower was worthwhile before). And third tip, which serves less of relaxation, but is extremely helpful: use lubricants. The more is the better.
Sure, who thinks of anal sex, which is the first of the doggy style? Say: She kneels in front of him and he penetrates from behind. It is also different. Especially for women who are concerned that he cannot be stopped in the heat of the moment and is going too hard, there is a good alternative by relying on him.
In this way, the woman can control how deep and how fast the whole thing happens. In addition, he can additionally stimulate her clitoris. Tip for advanced: If you feel like sitting up with the face to the partner (vice versa) and still uses a dildo for double penetration.
Anal plugs – Sextoys inserted into the anus – are quite useful for two reasons and therefore have their big on the anal sex. For one thing, they are another way to relax the muscles and make penetration from behind easier. In addition, they are a great way to get used to the feeling at this point, and to sensitize for anal sex. For those who are having sex from behind for the first time, definitely new territory to discover.
Important: Lubricant is also helpful for the anal plug. Unlike vibrators that are moved in and out, the plug stays inside. But he can be moved back and forth a little bit. Just test it out. Those who are not trained ask the partner. One more thing: anal plugs come in all shapes and sizes. So who is not so practiced, first try a smaller size.
Anal chain and vibrator
Anal plugs are not the only sex toy for the anus. The big brothers of the plug are called anal vibrator and anal chain. The anal chain also massages the man’s prostate every time he moves. However, when the chain is pulled out, the nerve endings on the edge of the anus are stimulated, which can be quite exciting.
Anal vibrators are also suitable for stimulating nerve endings before anal sex. You can introduce it (please do not forget the lubricant!) And move it slowly back and forth – you will be amazed! All that is missing is the partner of trust with whom you can discover the extremely anrogenic Anus.
Anal beads are a great way to discover anal sex gently and quietly. Generally, anal beads are initially small and then expand according to the length you choose, allowing your body to adapt to their size. Smooth and rounded, anal beads are easy to insert and put in confidence.
Thanks to the uniformly, rounded beads and easy to hold design, the butt plugs offer an extraordinary and tempting sensation that is capable of turning a classic orgasm into a real earthquake.
How to use anal beads?
Before you start, lubricate the anal beads and your anus with a thick anal lubricant and put yourself in a comfortable position.
Start by pushing the first one or two beads to get used to the sweet sensation of anal penetration. When you feel ready, insert others, using one hand to push the beads and the other to hold your anus open.
When you have inserted the last pearl, you should feel full and pleasantly relaxed but for more sensations, try to pull the pearls out at the moment of orgasm to really intensify the moment!
We advise beginners to start with a set of very flexible anal beads such as Supersex silicone anal beads by Tracey Cox. When you use anal beads for the first time, their great flexibility will allow you to stimulate different areas in you until you find your erogenous zone!
If you’ve ever had anal experiences before and want to try something a little different, you might like vibrating anal beads like Cupid’s vibrating anal beads , which will add extra excitement.
The best anal beads have a loop or handle at the end, like Love honey’s beginner anal beads, which keeps them from entering you entirely. However, you may prefer the appearance and feel of anal beads without this removal handle, so be sure to leave at least two beads on the outside of your body so you can remove them more easily.
For a full guide, see this Cosmopolitan article.