They Value Time
Wouldn’t you agree that time is precious? Most people go through life without realizing this. We waste time doing all kinds of things, and one of them is dating. One of the most annoying things for any woman, at least when it comes to dating, is wasting her time with the wrong man. This just makes you feel like you could’ve been investing time in someone else if only you knew things would go badly.
Another annoying thing is dating a man who doesn’t value time. This usually happens when you’re dating younger men. A couple of years of difference doesn’t seem like much until they express they have all the time in the world, and you don’t feel the same. So, what can you do about this? Try dating older men.
No matter the age gap, older men know how to value time. They know that time passes by, and you should make the most out of every moment. We can all agree that this is very attractive. Why? Well, we know for a fact that all women love mature men who know how to make them feel like time with them isn’t wasted.
Older Men Have More Experience
We all mature with age, some more than others. Even though we can mature when we’re constantly stepping out of our comfort zones as young people, age still plays a crucial part in this process. It’s often said that women mature faster than men. Whatever the reason for that may be, it’s only natural to assume that women want to date someone equally as mature as them. Can you find that maturity in younger men? You can, but it’s very rare.
On the other hand, older men are one the same level of maturity as most women. In fact, you can often find older men and younger women in relationships because women do mature faster. So, what can you get from a relationship with an older man? One of the things is years of their life experience you can learn from. They can teach you important lessons, guide you through life, and help you become the best version of yourself.
We’re not saying you absolutely can’t find any of this in a man that’s a few years younger. But there’s no reason to risk your potential partner’s maturity levels when you can just date an older man instead.
They Don’t Fear Commitment
When you’re dating a guy that’s a few years younger, you’ll notice that his opinions on commitment are iffy. Many of them feel like a commitment is a serious thing, and they should have more fun in life before settling down. However, what they apparently don’t know, is that you can commit to a person without immediately wanting to settle down.
Committing to someone means you have eyes for nobody but them. You love and support them through the good and the bad. Sometimes, things don’t work out, but you stay committed while they do. So, why is this so hard for younger men to grasp? They usually think serious commitment leads to marriage and that it’s more than just not cheating. That can be the case, but maybe the problem is that they think too much of it.
On the other hand, older men know what commitment really means. What’s more, they’re not afraid of it. Older men will be committed no matter where the relationship leads. Why? Because they know that they should make the most of every connection and their time. Don’t be afraid to date an older man even if you’re not looking for anything serious. All kinds of exclusive relationships require commitment, so just have fun.
Older Men Are Financially Stable
Financial stability is one of the many dating preferences women have, regardless of their potential partner’s age. This is not because they’re aspiring gold diggers but because financial stability makes everyone feel safe. When you’re financially stable, you know that you don’t have anything to worry about. This doesn’t mean a man needs to be rich for women to want him. Instead, it’s good that he has a stable job or a career, and his potential woman will match that.
While younger men can be financially stable, this is common for the majority of older men. They’ve probably worked multiple jobs and have as much experience in their careers as they do in life. This means they may even have accomplished careers.
So, what else does this stability mean? It means that an older man can teach a woman how to be financially responsible. Not only that, but he can help her progress in her career as well. He doesn’t need to help her by finding her a job, but he can simply share advice and tips he has learned through the years.
They Are Great in Bed
Finally, we can all agree that sex is an important aspect of all relationships. However, having sex doesn’t mean you’re having good sex. Unfortunately, younger guys may not always have a lot of experience. Even when they do, that still doesn’t guarantee that they’re doing a good job. Knowing how to satisfy a woman is a must, so you should adjust your age preferences in dating according to who you think has the most experience.
Older men usually have more experience. Plus, they’re wise enough to know what makes a woman tick. They learn this through experience, but there’s also another way. Older men are more likely to come across vocal women that will tell or teach them how to please a woman. They’ll put this knowledge to the test and master a technique through practice.
When you have sex with an older man, you’ll notice that he’s doing everything right. Not only that, but he’ll know how to take critique and guidance without making a big deal or getting insecure. You trying to teach a man how to please you is never an insult, and older men know that.